If you don’t like your life, any aspect of your life, then change it!!
Yes it will be hard. Depending on the area of your life that you want to change and how far away it’s gotten from you, it will seem unbearable at times.
But isn’t staring down your fear, digging your post into the ground and making the stand to take back your life worth it?! Staking your claim right …. It’s YOUR life!! And you don’t have another one in the bank … so OWN it!
We read rags to riches stories ALL THE TIME! Why not let it be you?! Why not you?!
Yes…these stories always go from heartbreaking to heroic. Yes, it can seem cliché. I would submit to you that clichés become clichés because they are a repetitive truth! A repetitive truth that can be documented over and over as a physical result in someone else’s life.
Why can’t it be you?!
Take inventory of your life. When are you happiest? When are you not? Are you miserable in ANY area of your life right now? If so, do you have a plan to change it? If you don’t have a plan, then create one. Fear, doubt, unbelief will all come in when you start this path. And only YOU can decide to keep going in spite of them.
However, when you do keep going in spite of the unsettling feelings, or even the unsettling realities that come about from your change, you will begin to keep and maintain the power over your own life.
Most of the time and definitely after a new level of self-awareness kicks in, you remain a victim because of your own personal choices. You may not like the alternative pain that you will experience by an “about face” in any area of your life, but I guarantee you that this short term pain is much better than the lifelong suffering you’ll experience by leaving the power over your life in someone else’s hands.
You can either be a victim of your circumstances or dominate the outcomes that they produce.
Think about it ~ nK